Mariska Hargitay and Peter Hermann have created a successful 15-year marriage, but for the happy couple, their decision to adopt their two younger children was one that really strengthened their unconditional bond.
After the Law and Order: SVU star gave birth to their son August Miklos Friedrich in June 2006, the couple opted to adopt their next two children. They first welcomed now-8-year-old daughter Amaya Josephine in 2011 and then, four months later, son Andrew Nicolas to their family after his birth that summer.
“Having lost my mom at a young age, I then grew up with my stepmom, and I have half siblings, and so I know that families can be built in all sorts of different ways, that there isn’t just one way to create a family and that it isn’t just about biology,” Hargitay, 55, says in the latest issue of PEOPLE.
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“We adopted Amaya, and Andrew, I always describe it as this angel that fell out of the sky, because he was a little unexpected,” the actress continues.
The decision to add two more children to their family, while surprising at first, was a pivotal moment in the pair’s marriage, and for the better.
“It’s something that happened very quickly, when adoption can take a long time,” Hargitay adds. “We were so beautifully and surprisingly … not because we’re not in sync, but surprisingly in sync about something so huge. So momentous.”
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For Hermann, 51, the unconventional manner in which he and his wife increased their tribe only added to the love he has for his family of five.
“It’s funny, I always get so private about our kids, but I think that the easiest way or the easiest answer is we just wanted a bigger family and we feel incredibly blessed,” the Younger star tells PEOPLE.
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Adds the Emmy-winning actress, “I think there is such beauty in the divine architecture of how this family was built.”
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